Profile basics
Use profile writing guides for names, pronouns, intentions and city-level location choices.
The help centre brings together the pages that answer the questions most adults have before joining, updating a profile or deciding whether a conversation should continue.

Use profile writing guides for names, pronouns, intentions and city-level location choices.
Review privacy choices, slower off-platform timing and practical steps when someone ignores boundaries.
Learn how local dating, travel range and long-distance planning can be stated clearly on a profile.
For profile wording, start with dating intentions and the name or pronouns you want people to use. When a conversation feels wrong, move directly to safety and unwanted-contact guidance.
Confirm who the service is for, improve your first message or act on a concern using the dating safety guidance.
When you reach out through the live service, include the browser or device you use, the page involved and a short description of what happened. Clear information shortens the time between a problem and a useful answer.
Screenshots should avoid exposing private information when possible. The same privacy standards that matter in dating also matter when you ask for help.